Given your past life experiences and your current enlightenment would you ever get into that level of commitment again?
Myself, no.
cab
by Cabin in the woods 112 Replies latest jw friends
Given your past life experiences and your current enlightenment would you ever get into that level of commitment again?
Myself, no.
cab
I have been divorced 18 years.........I think NO for myself as well.
purps
I don't think my hubbie would like that idea.
did initially...but gradually getting resigned to not...not so much by choice tho..well not mine..and not thru fear of commitment
I just don't know... and funny that this comes up as I'm just barely starting out in the 'dating scene' as a fresh xJW, and free from any sort of relationship for nearly 7 months...
I'm finding I don't care much for this dating thing. lol Too much work, too much stress when the 'spark' is one-sided (not mine).... Plus, my ability to trust, to hand over my heart again and allow someone else "in" like that is a bit impossible right now. Maybe in time, I don't know. But the thought of remarrying right now isn't a good thought. I'm pretty content not being responsible TO anyone, or being responsible FOR anyone ('cept the little people here).
But I'm relatively young -- who knows, something might smack me upside when I least expect it. :)
~merfi
Spinster with 20 Cats class
If marriage is the only way God would permit us to have sex in the new world.....I would want to get married, but with the right person though....
yes, I would love to be married.....to a xjw would be best for me.
Taking apps.....
yeah i would too. even tho my first marriage was crap, think the ex hubby has a girlfriend even tho were not divorced yet, what a naughty jw?? next time tho i'd do it for love, and to have that commitment, (and also even tho i'm dfed my parents would be really upset if i lived with someone!) |
Right now, no, I don't see myself remarrying. The piece of paper isn't the most important thing....
Sirona
Before I got married the first time I promised myself that if the first time around didn't work there would be no second attempt. Now I've been separated for 2 1/2 years and I don't feel any differently. I enjoy living alone, and Rocco provides all the company I need around the house.
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