Hey, Lisa, I can see we are both feeling very emotional. I lost two neighbors in this attack, and I'm feeling grief over the whole thing.
I understand where you are coming from. I just hate black-and-white thinking. For all the wonderful things America stands for, there are also problems we must be vigilant to protect against. Similarly, for all the hatred expressed toward America by some, there are plenty of others in those lands who do not feel that way. I no more wish to nuke whole nations than I wanted to see innocent lives lost in this country.
Black-and-white thinking is never called for, for we don't live in a black-and-white world. Ever.
For all my emotions, I am not letting my core personality change. My values remain the same as they did before, for they were based on reason and that reason remains. I love this country, and that gives me the right to point out its flaws. I want those responsbile caught. I also don't want unnecessary liberties removed, especially permanently (which is far too often the way any government works -- once you give them a power, they keep it forever).
But I'm not in the mood to fight with you. I understand your perspective, and I support you.