LG,
Yes, I would ask why, a little lesson I learned a long time ago, I think before I would not confront the issue out of fear, but age has brought me some wisedumb.
Good Luck LG
Oh another lesson I learned, I would wait till you told me what was going on, and not cut you off midsentence, just sit there and listen to everything you had to say, and before I answer I'd make sure I understand everything you said correctly, and if there was something I didn't understand I would ask you to clarify.
just in case my wife is reading this, Honey did I get it all right? can I have a beer now? he he he