by hambeak 43 Replies latest jw friends
Scully you are right and Jake agrees totally with you.
He said he will call our attorney tomorrow but here in Tx I don't think anything will be accomplished. So I think when I am all better we need to move to Massachussettes (did I spell that right)? where we can be legal
I thought you could leave your things to anyone as long as you have a will and you are in your right mind.
I love it jgnat, that's soo sweet. I hope it made you smile ham.
Earthtone
Jgnat made me laugh and I love the message you all are so sweet. I am falling in love with you all Your men have nothing to worry about though. hahaha
I've been on the internet so long tonight he asked me what was up ( he never asks, he is still confused on why I don't want to be a JW anymore, he's a non-dub). So before he could start growling, I told him you were gay.lol He was like, oh okay, carry on and just lost interest. Your a much better conversationalist (is that a word. lol). lol
You're sweet and tell him good night and give him a kiss for me hahaha Just kidding. Take care sweet lady I need to get some sleep now too.
Again I feel I may have some family.
I'm going too. NIte all
hambeak,
Talk to your doctor about how you feel about your therapy, and how you are emotionally effected by the conversations you have with your kids. Explain, if you haven't already, your history with him/her regarding the nature of being a jehovah's witness. Your doctor will know you more than a poster here on JWD, and will help you. Your therapy is number one on your list of things to do.
Along with that, know that people here at JWD have experienced similar things, and talking with us can help.
Most of us here, while under the influence of 'Brooklyn' control said and acted on things that were bizarre by common decency standards. However, we eventually reached a point where it had to stop. Your kids may someday reach that same point. You never know.
Stick around a while, and some day you may be surprised.
Take care.
steve
I'm so glad you are going to fight. In all my nursing years I've seen this tear up many families. This is when the true colors come out. Talk to an attorney. Can you go ahead and put his name on anything now? A last will and testament should be legally binding. Have you thought about giving him power of attorney, and even guardianship in the event you need help taking care of any legal matters, financial,medical, etc?
We are family here. You are all my family. Blood isn't always thicker than water. Boy have I learned that the last month since my dad died.
shelley
Hi Hambeak.
We haven't talked before, but I would wager that if you had a dear friend who had just gone thru cancer surgery and was talking about giving up you would explain to them that they were in no position to be making that kind of a decision right now. Same for you. You are under the influence of surgical pain and pain killers.
It isn't your fault, but you are not thinking clearly!
Make an agreement with yourself to put off any changes in your treatment until you are feeling better. Take your meds, go thru the chemo, and keep in mind that
Living well is the best revenge!
If your kids think they have an inheritance coming, leave them each $1 and SPEND THE REST!
Take care of yourself, be kind to yourself.
hambeak- i know i dont know you personally but if you let nature take its course than you are only letting them win. My parents told my sister and i they were leaving the org. and we hardly talked to them for over a year. one day something just sparked and we called to ask them a question and then more questions and now my family and my sisters family are no longer jw's. dont give up on them. they are only doing what they have been brainwashed to do.
