by Good Girl or Bad Girl? 52 Replies latest jw friends
Hey badboy, I never met you before. What's your tune?
I've said it before and I'll say it again: I hate moving. But if it's good for you than good for you. New living situations are sometimes a good thing.
badboy, I've noticed you like to write in all caps - what's that mean? You are not yelling are you? Maybe you are just really excited to be talking to me...
Linda/Fullofdoubtnow, that's very inspiring to me. I think it's worth it to wait for the right person, not to get married just for the sake of getting married. Good for you, you deserve true happiness!
I simply love to write in caps,bad me.
Thanks GGBG, I always wanted to get married, but the "right" jw man never came along. I have known Trev for 15 years, we were in the same cong, but I doubt we'd have ever got together if we hadn't both left, although we always liked each other.
Ain't apostasy grand!!!
Linda
I know, Linda, being out of the WTS affords me the opportunity to find the man who is actually right for me, not all the invalids available to me in the Organization. It's sick how many beautiful, wonderful sisters married these jokers who did not deserve them! And then those brothers got to rule the households and the sisters got to be second-rate. Oh darn, I missed out on that life.
Good for you and Trev. I'm very very pleased for you!
Sorry to be the first downer.
Everything is pretty bad right now. My wife discovered my online activities, and is heartbroken and upset every day now. She has in turn outed me to several close friends and family members, and I suspect it's only a matter of time before it gets to the elders.
In the meantime I'm trying to go through the Witness motions, to try and keep my friends and family and try to convince as many of them as possible that it's all a crock. I have to go to meetings and listen to idiots comment and pontificate on subjects that are difficult for people three times smarter than them to understand. Last Sunday we learned about how murmuring against the organization is bad. The Book Study this week was all about spiritism. Soon, we'll start on the Revelation Climax book.
So, yeah, things are pretty much shit right now.
Glad to hear you're doing good, though.
Hi underbeliever,
I am sorry that things are tough for you right now, I hope they improve a lot very soon.
Linda
Oh, dear under_believer!
Please don't apologize. I'm very sorry things are going badly for you. What is happening to you right now is what I fear I'll have to face one day too, and what many here already have gone through. I wanted to know how you are, so if you don't have something positive to report, I still care about you and want to know how you are.
I really care about all of you so much. Please remember that. I hope things get better for you, under_believer, very soon. Take things one day at a time. Take care of yourself. And remember that you are a good person, and that your happiness and being true to what you believe is VERY important. Because I'm sure people will try to convince you otherwise.
Everyone here has got your back. Hang in there!!!
With genuine brotherly love,
GG/BG
> And remember that you are a good person
That's probably the hardest part right now. Thanks for your kind words.
Hey GG, BG
Things are going good found this site and enjoying it. Borgless for almost a year now, just celebrated my sons 1st birthbay, he is 11.
For your info I'm an ex-jokerwe all weren't that bad were we??????
