You are talking of "deeper things: I will refer to a life long career which I was denied and will give you my experience.
When I was 16 I trained and competed to be a trainer in the ballroom dancing field. I won and started Teaching. This was my dream and I taught many people.
Some of the men I trained were, flat footed, slow etc.and one of the worst showed up on TV as a competitive dancer,
I was furious. His name was Eddy and you may have seen him. I will let you know this...My mother wanted me to quit as this was not what Jehovah wanted and I could do it in the new system which was coming about the time I graduated.
Since I was at home I had to quit.
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