This week Elder Z shows up at my house twice, unexpectedly. The first time I didn't see him, but my daughter did and didn't answer the door. The next time I decided not to answer the door since I didn't feel like talking to him. I don't really know him, and we've only spoken briefly at the KH a few times.
Now my daughter wants to go to the KH on Sunday. If we go, I was wondering if I should just approach Elder Z and ask him what he wanted from me.Would that be a mistake?
I don't want to hide and I don't want to live in uncertainty, wondering if there will be more visits or even wondering why (though I think it's because I've been inactive). I have a valid reason that I'd share with him for my inactivity and KH absence, but wouldn't share all the reasons since I'm not ready to leave.
All these years I would have welcomed a little attention, when I've been irregular and inactive. Then this year I just want to be left alone and now this elder shows up. Others on the board have posted about elders' visits, so it seems something's brewing.