I agree that it's horrid that they share so much sexual topics with very small kids. In fact, I feel as if the questions in a JC for a teenager are over the line. When I was 16, and confessing my own fornication (stupid move...I know), I was sitting in the back crying to my elders, and they were men I'd grown up with and knew like uncles. Then, these old uncle-like men wanted me to describe HOW we had sex, and I was SO shamed and confused! How uncomfortable that was. "What kind of sex did you 2 have?" ME (crying): "What do you mean...what kind?" "Regular?" ME: "Regular, I guess". I was trying to figure out if they wanted me to mention the oral side of the matter as well, though I think they got the hint that I didn't want to say it and they moved on quickly, probably because my giant father was sitting there wondering what the hell they wanted me to say. Then they asked if it was missionary. I just stared at them like, you've got to be kidding. I pretended to be so into crying that I couldn't answer, and they moved on.
It's almost like a gyno visit, except your dad is watching 3 men examine you instead of a doctor.
Not to change the subject, but what is the official rule when it comes to teens over 18 in a JC? Do the parents only have to be involved if they are living at home? Because I was very TO'ed that my dad had to keep hearing EVERYTHING about my "immoral" sexual encounters. It was bad enough that he called me a "slut" for doing it with a boy that I thought I was going to marry, but then for him to get a visualization of the positions, and obviously, of oral being performed (without me having to say it, they knew). Boy, they can sure make the natural parts of life seem like a nightmare. Now, I get creeped out that they know I do it with my husband of 2 years. What's worse, they involved my LITTLE sisters, who were VERY young at the time, and shared with them MY encounters with boys as well. The bad part about that is that they told the little big mouthed one, who has, in several occasions at the hall, used my fornications as leverage for an arguement in front of people who didn't know about it. Imagine to look on sister so in so when baby bigmouth says, "well, at least I didn't HAVE SEX with (insert boy's name". What a weird family!