no
as long as your husband is aware of it and knows who you are with, I don't see a problem.
What do you do when a old Boyfriend wants to meet up for dinner........
by whyamihere 56 Replies latest jw friends
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lowden
I'd be 'ripping mad' if my wife went for a meal with an ex!
I can imagine that it would be appealing Brooke but it's a BIG no-no in my world.
Not that i know your situation but i would wager that he's not just interested in 'friendship'.
Peace
Lowden
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IronClaw
He's probably after one thing. Enough said.
The Claw.
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OUTLAW
I`m with you Lowden..Any husband that buys the line:"He`s just a friend!"..Is a sucker...OUTLAW
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serendipity
Hi Brooke,
Why turn down a free meal? Seriously, how does your husband feel about this? And how would you feel if your husband asked a former gf out to dinner?
I personally don't think it's a good idea, but I don't have any former bf's I'd want to see either.
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Dismembered
However, something seems odd about it and his reasons to meet after all this time
Perhaps he's seen you newest avatar.
Dismembered
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Schism
I say he's being naughty. If you are happily married, I would suggest not going alone.
I think you should either A) take hubby along to get the point across, or B) tell him no, and be stern about how weird it seems to you.
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banished1
We women are such suckers but the men know what other men are up to and they smell a rat.
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fullofdoubtnow
I'm not married, but I know my bf wouldn't be happy if I agreed to meet another man for dinner. (I know cos I just asked him). Even if his intentions were honourable, it wouldn't be worth the probable friction doing such a thing would cause. You could always test him out by inviting him round to meet your husband and kids. If he wasn't keen on that, you'd have a pretty good idea what his real reasons for wanting to have dinner with you alone are.
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JH
Tell him that you and your husband will be glad to eat with him.