Suppress those feelings of guilt by presenting the moral question of whether to see him on an internet forum and relying on responses consistent with your own desires to rationalize away any feelings of guilt!
Go for it, Brooke! LOL
What do you do when a old Boyfriend wants to meet up for dinner........
by whyamihere 56 Replies latest jw friends
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Sassy
I think my biggest question was how does hubby feel about it.. but you have answered that now..
so.. if you are both cool and you aren't concerned about any lines being crossed.. go..
and invite hubby maybe..
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seawolf
Agree with sassy...ask him and see how he feels about it all.
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unbeliever
I've dealt with this recently. My ex BF came to town recently for a visit and asked me to show him around. We went all over the place and had dinner. NOTHING romantic happened. Anyway the guy I am involved with ripped into me. I underwent what felt like an interrogation. I have never seen him so angry. To me I consider my ex to be a dear friend and that is it. I did not consider him any different from any of my other guy friends because we broke up so long ago.
I know he is friends with some of his exes and I could care less if he has dinner with them. As long as he does not hide it. I had no qualms about telling him. It was totally innocent. He called me asked me how my day went and I mentioned one of my friends was in town and I was showing him around and it all went downhill from there. He actually forbade me to see him again. I told him he did not pick my friends and not to give me an ultamatium. He backed down but he is still pissed about it though. In a way to get back at me I assume he called me and told me he was going to dinner with his ex GF and that he was so looking forward to it. I told him to grow up and have a good time. I don't play those bullshit games. I think my one mistake in this was not telling him first that I was seeing an ex BF. Still his reaction was totally out of line.
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whyamihere
Like I have said many times....I talked to my husband about and he doesn't care. We actually laughed about it.
Furthermore I trust myself, I dont need anyone to trust me if I can trust myself. Plus, he was one of my best friends and him and I still can laugh about anything. That's all it is, on my side!
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jrjr4189
Stay home and watch the game with your husband
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ButtLight
Stay home and watch the game with your husband
Nobody in their right mind would watch a game with her!!!!!!
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whyamihere
Stay home and watch the game with your husband
Nobody in their right mind would watch a game with her!!!!!!LOL - you love it, admit it! Hell, I have even held back around you.
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frankiespeakin
WAH,
Your hubby seems like a real even tempered guy that doesn't get jealous easily. I think you should go, and hey even if something does happen what's really the big deal, it is only a big deal if you make it one. Of course my gf and I like a little variety so we don't worry too much about meeting old bf or gf.
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becca1
Don't start something you may not want to see through. If he just wants to "catch up" he would include your husband. He's up to no good. Don't fall for it.