Ginny,
You have interesting viewpoints. I wonder if you have concrete ideas on current events or whether your ideas are still in a state of major flux. Again... just wondering.
Sitting in judgment of people you don't understand -- and perhaps have made no attempt to understand -- is easy.If this accusation is directed at me, I think it is misplaced. Several of my friends are Muslim...
This "accusation" is directed toward whomever it applies. Like you, I am only sharing my views, but received a slap earlier... something about Gandhi and King, I believe. Seems that I had the wrong view and needed correction -- or an editorial comment. Whatever.
Is dad a terrorist? It depends on the father's intent. Was he trying to coerce and intimidate with fear? Or was he trying to take justice into his own hands?
I wonder how your mind works, I really do...
Put me, teejay, in the role of dad in the scenario I gave, cause I know what I'd be thinking and what I'd likely do. My intent would be revenge, justice, whatever word you want to put on it.
Cite scriptures; say, "Now, now, tj, you know that's not right..."; quote the law; do whatever you have to do... someone is going to pay for what happened to my daughter. Take justice into my own hands? Absolutely. If not my hands, whose? Generations of Americans lived long lives without ever getting a hint of justice, waiting for a justice that never came. In the instance I created, I would indeed be taking justice into my own hands.
Now, I ask you a second time: Would I be a terrorist?
Was dad "justified"? It depends on what you consider just. Who was in the building when it burned? Were they all rapists, or were there other people who had nothing to do with raping? Do rapists deserve to die?
No, it depends on what YOU consider just. I asked YOU, remember? To my way of thinking, yes, I was justified.
Who was in the building? Let's say three of the four who were guilty, plus two who weren't.
Do rapists deserve to die? Do pedophiles deserve to die? Do murderers deserve to die? What does Ginny believe? What would Ginny's perfect world do with such offenders? Sit down and reach an agreement? Turn the other cheek and hope for the best? In the above scenario, Dad (tj) is giving you a clue to what HE thinks by torching the building while knowing that people are inside.
What will be the consequences of his action? Will the system be changed, or will the cycle of violence escalate?
If I have my way, the immediate consequences will be that the building will burn to the ground with everybody inside. I would consider the deaths of the two innocents as does the U.S. military when innocents die: collateral damage. They should've picked better friends.
Will the system be changed? Maybe, especially if one of the rapists was the corrupt sheriff who allowed the laws to be broken and refused to honor the badge he wore by doing his job.
Anger can be quite just and still cloud one's ability to think clearly... Acting... in the heat of anger can lead to behavior one later regrets.
Yes, it CAN. I'd have no regrets.
I'm still not sure where I stand on this issue...
I understand. I am not similarly plagued. I know what I would do.
I learn towards the martial arts approach, in which an aggressor's energy is deflected back at him and used against him. In this way, one can defend oneself without rancor, even with compassion for one's opponent.
How nice.
Truth be told, I lean toward the Quaker approach where there are no heated disagreements to begin with, thus no need to even deflect an aggressor's energy back at him, since in that lovely world of warm, fuzzy feelings, people don't even get angry with each other. Alas, when you find that Utopia, you WILL let us know, won't you?
I see little point in vengeance or revenge. It may relieve one's feelings, but it does not unrape or unkill a person. Usually it leads to more violence.
Again, how wonderfully transcendental your perspective is!
I'm way more in touch with my dark side than you, apparently. While killing the mofos that sullied my daughter may not undo the damage, I will sleep well in knowing that those particular sons of bitches won't be raping or killing anyone else; won't be encouraging anyone else to copy their sick acts; won't be passing their fucked up genes to a 2nd generation. I see we are worlds apart on many issues. I don't know... I'm at peace with that, somehow.
Somewhere, somehow, someone has to be big enough to say, "This is enough. The cycle stops here. I will forgive and work towards a lasting solution."
And you know who that "someone" would be in my scenario? All the relatives, friends and casual acquaintances of the bastards that died in the building that 'mysteriously' burned to the ground. They'd have to find a way to "let go", say, "this is enough." I'd have no problem with that.
I do think that criminal behavior must be restrained. Vengeance and revenge are different from justice.
Criminal behavior is not necessarily equal to vengeance or revenge. Said another way, vengeance/revenge is not necessarily criminal. Imo.
tj