I will revive this thread about lies
From the chapter: "Dealing With Others as God Desires" in the new book "Live With Jehovah’s Day In Mind" released at this year's (2006) District Conventions.
‘How would God evaluate the way I deal with my brothers?’
One area of concern is how we view and treat a brother when things have not gone smoothly.
God desires that we be truthful in our dealings.
We must be honest in formal situations, but we are also urged: "Speak truthfully with one another." That includes in the privacy of our home when speaking with our marriage mate or close relatives. It also applies to our everyday conversations with spiritual brothers and sisters, whether we are speaking face-to-face, talking on the telephone, or communicating in another way. They have every reason to expect that what we are saying is the truth.
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