Actually, I never asked elders any questions before or after my baptism. I did what the WTS says to do in print, I looked it up in the WT publications. Anything that was said in a publication was more official than anything an elder said. The elders were not supposed to give their personal opinion but to direct you to the publications. I would occasionally research a question, find the WTS official answer, and then ask an elder to see if he gave the WT answer. Usually it was after a comment he had made at a meeting that I knew did not line up with WT policy/doctrine.
*** w93 5/15 p. 20 par. 12 Shepherd the Flock of God Willingly ***
A Christian undershepherd willingly manifests respect for the theocratic arrangement. He does so when he directs those seeking advice to God's Word, the Bible. Though experience will help an elder to build a storehouse of Bible-based counsel, this does not mean that he will have the Scriptural solution to every problem at his fingertips. Even when he knows the answer to a question, he may find it wise along with the inquirer to consult the Watch Tower Publications Index or similar indexes. He thus teaches in two ways: He demonstrates how to find helpful information and humbly shows respect for Jehovah by directing attention to what God's organization has published.
But how unwise it would be for an elder to offer a mere personal opinion as though it were sound Scriptural advice!
** w75 12/15 p. 766 Where Can You Turn with Confidence? ***
Or he may be able to spend some time showing you how questions or matters of this sort can be researched using aids such as Watch Tower Publications Index. That assistance will be doubly beneficial to you. First, you may right then locate a Bible-based discussion of the matter that you can study carefully. Second, in the process you may learn how you can in the future look up information.
Blondie