Fullofdoubtnow said: "Also, the way they think they have control over people, even when they leave. I remember being told by the po after I had handed my da letter in that I have a duty to infform any jw who tried to speak to me of my status as da'd so that they don't try to pursue a conversation with me. Needless to say, I haven't complied, but I think just about everyone around here knows now"
I agree that that arrogance is infuriating. We owe them NOTHING other than courtesy and human decency-like any other person. We should be able to expect the same. I'm not even disfellowshipped and I get that from current JWs. I have no obligation to tell anyone they have a reason or a right to ignore me. I usually tell them I was raised as one, and leave the conversation open. Since I wasn't baptised, many aren't quite sure if they should ignore me or not-till I tell them how I 'really' feel about the organization.