Ok....Maybe this is stupid, but I was thinking of all of us setting up a day to go to the meeting and all that are here and hiding, or just lurk here could participate and we could set up an underground support system. It would just entail a simple gesture at the meeting....like holding a tissue, or some toilet paper. (Like you had a runny nose) If there are elder lurkers and they tried to "catch" someone doing this...what could they say.."Why are you holding a tissue????????" Talk about paranoid!
What I was thinking is I would have a purse full of my number and web sites for someone to check out and if anyone was "flying" the white "flag" I would make myself available to them to "talk" and "welcome" me. No one knows me around here, so it could work for me...but it would be cool to see how many have runny noses!
Does any one want to do this? Any other idea's? We could make it a universal date and just keep talking about it till we do it to make sure everyone knows.
I would really like the opinion of those still going to the meetings for their families sake....I mean don't you think you may find someone else you already know and love having the same thoughts as you...maybe someone to go in "field service" with!?