Hello everyone -
Sorry it took me a day to reply, I was decorating my Christmas Tree. :) Wish my mom could see it. Thanks for all your good advice.
My one brother and his wife, might actually do the boycotting her "family dinners" - until she comes around. He is so angry at her. I dont really want to split up the family, I think it defeats the purpose... but whatever will be... will be.
I agree my daughter and I are a package deal. I will no longer give in to that.
As of today (Tuesday) - she has turned off her phones, so that no one may call her. My brother tried to call her to reason with her, and she is now "shunning" him. I guess in her mind, it is easier to "shun" then to deal with reality.
Well, thanks again for your help. I really appreciate it.
Becky