This question may produce some flaming, but so be it. I've noticed many are freaked out, annoyed, worried, or simply felt harrassed when faced with the prospect of a visit from the elders when trying to fade. Others, or at times the same ones, complain that they recieved no inquiry from them at all or very little. I know I'm happy if they never show up at my door again, and I'll admit there was at time I was worried they would come over and inquire of my beliefs, but not anymore. What would you prefer?
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