Ditto to everything said on this thread, but mostly the hipocrasy. Love your neighbor, we'll hate you !
One thursday meeting a prominent elder in the cong. said we should all make a special attempt to go out on service the following Saturday. Put preaching ahead of any personal things you need to do.
So, Saturday morning as I am walking with my companion, we turn the corner onto the street where the Elder lives(d). Guess who is packing their SUV with a picnic basket, beach ball and all the other supplies for a day at the shore ? Yep, you guessed.
Sunday I went to the KH, stayed for 5 minutes and then I just could not control my feet from taking action and escorting me out. Never have been back.
Quixote