Billzfan,
My determination to play come hell or high water led to my mother turning me over to the state as a youngster, which then lead to foster care
Wow, that's the craziest thing I've ever seen! No offense, but your mother seems "a bit" unstable. Wow, just wow.
I always wanted to play but never could have gotten away with crossing my dad on that one. It just wasn't worth it.
Now, when I started working in an office, I played on the company softball team. It was great fun but I felt quite guilty about it. Even missed meetings to play! But, when I decided to get serious about "the truth" I stopped.
I like many others turned down college but again I'm making up for it by going to school now. Shhh don't tell anyone. The funny thing is that when I casually mentioned that I was going back to school to my folks, they were very proud? Uh, didn't you guys tell me when I was a teenager that college was from the devil???
But, like you billzfan, I'm going to give my kids an opportunity to play, if thats what they want to do.