When my daughter started high school she really wanted to play volleyball, and being good dubs at the time, my wife and I had alot of thinking to do about it....mainly because I worked at the high school my kids attended and worked with most of the coaches and teams after work keeping the scorebook, operating the scoreboard, announcing, etc. (That's why the kids call me Gymbob!).
We agreed to let her play as long as she didn't miss any meetings. To make a long story short, she played basketball and volleyball all 4 years of high school and I went to every game. My wife never went to any of the games due to the comments from people in our cong.
We missed lots of meetings and it was one of the best things I ever did as a father. It was one of the things that made me begin to question the borg.
It became a big deal in our area, the CO gave a special talk at the circus assembly about how bad school sports are, then did it again when he visited our cong.
My daughter and I are happily both out of that crazy cult, due, in part, to the stupid way the society regards school sports!
p.s. My daughter's mom is still a dub, but she bailed out of a 23 year marraige after we learned the truth about "The Truth"!