She's my "lobster" ("Friends" reference), I just took a long time seeing it. But then I was more than a little myopic with my marriage breaking up. I could have had folks hitting on me right and left (or not at all) and I would have been oblivious.
The marriage will likely be either in Scotland or Texas, depending on Visas, but most likely Texas. Either way we'll probably have a party on the other side of the pond as well, and are currently looking at sometime this Summer (again, dependant on Visas)