Just thought I would post the 'Follow up' to this matter for those interested;
The 'original sin' was committed in the first week of January. I sent the letter that week that appears at the start of this thread, then a few days later the one to the BOE putting them on notice.
I have not heard from the elders at all - in fact the pharisee elder to whom the KH mail goes might have just tossed it - who knows. I did not hear from Kevin's employer either for a long time - so I went online, found the corporate site, and sent a copy to them with complaint that I had been ignored for nearly two months.
Boy did they get back to me. The manager of the story called several times while I was at work, then finally called in the evening when I was home a few weeks back now. He apologized prolifically for about half an hour and promised that Kevin had been 'reprimanded' and that such a thing would 'never happen again' under his watch. I thanked him.
Last week Wifey was in the store [she is not DA'd officially] and Kevin not only spoke with her civily, but walked up to her and carried on a short conversation. I was not sure that he would not have done so anyway in her case, since she is technically not the evil apostate in the family.
This morning I put the matter to the test myself. I went in the store, and heard Kevin speaking to someone in the meat area of the grocery. I made an intentional b-line to his location. When I came around the corner, his hand came up in a wave toward me, and I mean with alacrity, though he did not speak due to being already engaged in conversation. He made it absolutely clear that he was greeting me specifically. Though he looked less than pleased with the need to do so.
I must say, I kind of giggled under my breath all the way to the checkout.
Just thought I would update you folks.
Jeff