I believe the scenario goes like this in many countries:
Son/daughter graduates from high school and is not sure what to do with their lives. They toss around going to college but their parents say NO. On the other hand, if they would like to pioneer, mommy and daddy would be more than happy to continue to let them live at home rent free. They will let them borrow the car for pioneering and even pay for the gas. This of course makes mommy and daddy look like the model family in the hall. They have always aspired to be like one of those families that appear on stage at the conventions that everyone in the audience drools over.
In the meantime, the young bro or sis is having a hard time landing that part time job due to most employers laughing at their "field service" and "public speaking" experience gained from the kh. Once the bro or sis decides they want to move out, they find that living on their own practically requires that you work full time just to make ends meet. This is what happens when your choices only pay at or just barely above minimum wage. They have to stop pioneering just to pay rent. Mommy and daddy lose their special status in the hall for "supporting a full time pioneer." The bro or sis are now just a regular schmuck like everyone else. Only now, they are trying to land a partner of the opposite sex that makes a little more than they do in hopes that they "can pioneer again."
Uggh. I'm making myself ill just writing about this. But you know how it goes...
