Willy
That is the only logical reason why the "friends" do not circulate a member list. My ex-congo still does and it was updated to include EVERYONE, even the serious studies at the correctional center (jail)! I keed you not. Even my daughter's high school has a list of names addies and numbers that every student can buy for a buck. Nobody is shaking with fear over it either.
We call each other "Brother" but are too afraid to share phone numbers. How sad is that?