Good points. For what it's worth, here's the Watchtowers take on this;
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gtchap.86TheStoryofaLostSon***the discerning father of Jesus’ illustration no doubt has some idea of his son’s repentance by observing his sad, downcast countenance as he returns
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In Jesus’ parable of the prodigal son, the father ran to meet and then accepted his returning son. The father, seeing the lad’s pitiful condition, responded with natural parental concern. We can note, though, that the son did not bring home harlots or come with a disposition to continue his sinful life in his father’s home. No, he expressed heartfelt repentance and evidently was determined to return to living a clean life.
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w9411/1p.15par.22Jehovah—OurTenderlyCompassionateFather***Then there is the story of the prodigal son. Recall what happens when the wayward son returns home. "While he was yet a long way off, his father caught sight of him and was moved with pity, and he ran and fell upon his neck and tenderly kissed him." (Luke 15:20) This shows that when a Christian who has become wayward shows genuine repentance, Jehovah will feel pity and tenderly accept that one back.
'Genuine repentance' here seems no more than a sad face and empty pockets to the observer.
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