That is disgusting.
I am quite certain there are laws against what the nosey elder did.
For instance, I wonder if he ever heard about "conversion of personal property." Surely he would have had to provide the tape or a copy of it for evidence?
And if he did not, that would lead to "defamation of character" (if your friend had been clever enough to lie about the cigar-smoking video).
ha ha "the . . . smoking video!"
Then, that might lead to charges of false accusations, gossip, unloving behaviour, etc. on the cong level.
Whateva! These people are about as f@cking petty as any group or religion gets!
Edit:
Well, when it comes to pettiness, I suppose that what's good for the goose (the victim) is good for the gander (the elders). Check out personal property conversion/resultant damages statutes . . . don't know what equivalent is to this in Canada:
" 21-3-3. Presumed damages for wrongful conversion of personal property--Presumptions conclusive when possession wrongful from beginning. The detriment caused by the wrongful conversion of personal property is presumed to be:
(1) The value of the property at the time of the conversion, with the interest from that time; (2) Where the action has been prosecuted with reasonable diligence, the highest market value of the property at any time between the conversion and the verdict, without interest, at the option of the injured party; (3) A fair compensation for the time and money properly expended in pursuit of the property. Such presumptions cannot be repelled in favor of one whose possession was wrongful from the beginning by his subsequent application of the property to the benefit of the owner, without his consent.
Source: CivC 1877, §§ 1970, 1971; SL 1885, ch 42, § 1; CL 1887, §§ 4603, 4604; RCivC 1903, §§ 2315, 2316; RC 1919, §§ 1987, 1988; SDC 1939 & Supp 1960, § 37.1910. "
If it is established that conversion of personal property did in fact take place, then the stage seems to be set for a nice civil suit against all individuals involved, and possibly against the WBTS for the damages incurred by the nosey elder's illegal activity.