You mean like the one that had a drunken knock-down drag-out fight on his front lawn with his whole family over his daughter and her boyfriend? The police were called. He's still an elder.
Or perhaps you're speaking of one like the elder who gave a df'ing talk, describing VERY graphically the sounds and smells that must have occurred during the act of fornication for which the young pioneer sister was being df'd, while the sorry-*ss young brother involved only recv'd reproof? Totally revolting.
Or maybe it's the elder with the big showboat of a car who left his car in the parking lot of the KH and squeezed into a med.sized carload of pioneers, telling my 12 yo son, they didn't have room for him, on the morning my son stood in freezing cold and rain for 1 1/2 hrs waiting for the elder to pick him up for field service, as he'd promised? B*st*rd! My son was totally crushed and crying when he came back into our home. It was never the same for him after that.
Then again, could you be referring to the elder who told me to "be careful and perhaps not visit, since she was "emotionally labile," upon hearing that I was planning a visit to a young married sister with 6 stair-step kids, who was freshly grieving over the loss of her husband in an auto accident?
Then again,
Frannie
