ok. i think i might be saying something maybe provocative...
the real "college" experience is a one time shot.....
It is certainly true that a person can always go to college, full or pt; and one can always obtain the content in a number of other ways, including sefl-study.
But as my high-school lit teacher, Miss Allen, told us seniors as we were looking forward to going off to college...(this was back in 1989 for me)
"Remember kids not everything you are going to learn is in the books"
what she was obviously referring to is the whole "gestalt" of the college experience.
I submit that it is a three-part perfect storm of
1) the learning opportunity itself
2) the "environment" of college
3) this particular juncture in one's life.
1 & 2 could be elaborated upon, but they are not unobtainable by the "non-traditional" student. a non-trad in case you don't know is someone who doesn't proceed directly from high school to college but has some intervening time period. (sometimes due to jobs, military, life, pregnancy, money, whatever the reason)
It is the lack of #3 that is unobtainable by most (but perhaps not all) non-trads. what this refers to is this magical time period when a young person is finally out of the complete control of their previous home environment, they are, probably for the first time, encountering persons who are very different from them and what they were used to, they are also being exposed to different philosophies - and more impotantly, feel a sense of freedom to explore those different bodies of knowledge, perspective and meaning. A person at this age 18-24 roughly is still at the twighlight between teen and adult..not as frivolous perhaps as the past but not yet weighted by the concerns of the working world. (and yeah these are generalizations, every person's college experience is probably different, i am certain that it is, but i think at a larger perspective the above three prongs can be applied generally to the college experience)...and i could elaborate further but you take the meaning...
the above is not to say that a person, a non-trad, can't get their money's worth out of higher education or have an amazing time. I hugely advocate a lifetime of learning and going to college if you can.
This is only to say that there is something truly unique about being a certain age and being in college with peers who are also mostly of the same age and the transition boundary that all are experiencing at the same time between adolescence and adulthood. That experience is not replaceable and that's why it is all the more tragic when persons (such as JWs of the past) forgo the opportunity.
-eduardo