mama, I hope your son is feeling better!
What ridiculous, time wasting, crap that is.
Ya know, in a way it is, and in a way it isn't. The use of particular phraseologies is a technique of differentiation and conditioning that, however subtle and stupid it might seem in retrospect, do have meaning to those of us who were deeply involved in such ideologies (and I don't by any means limit that to JW's...I'm reasonably sure that the same characterization could be made about Mormons, or Bible Students, etc.).
As a little memory: I was on the 'security force' at the Vancouver BC international assembly (geez, back in the late 60s??...anyway, one of the last 8-dayers), and I encountered a person who struck me as a possible misfit. As I accompanied him along his route through the grounds, I asked him a couple of questions that I knew he couldn't answer, unless he was a JW. He didn't say the words "just right," and so I knew then that he was, well, shall we say, an "univited one."
These nuances, and changes thereto, tell much about the type of "society" we were in. I recall a remark along the lines that "if you haven't been an active JW for the last 6 months, your language will give you right away."