My heart goes out to you Decki. One of the wards, in the Service that I manage, caters to severe dementia. I also regularly visit some of the old-folks homes, including those that care for the moderately demented. Its heart-rending just to visit those places, far less have a family member there.
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Hey LT~ How are You? Drunk on Love I hope! I thank you for your kind words and yes it is really heart wrenching. But suprisingly it has given me a heart where I thought I had none in this area regarding my mom. So it is a good thing in some ways. Hopefully this treatment of UTI will change things a bit for her and we can get her back to that happy crazy state. That was a bit easier to take. I know it is only probably for my brother and I because I don't think she knows what she is doing..but if that is selfish so be it. I liked it a lot better than this.
Can't wait to see you and your lovely bride and your skinny lil pole dancing legs soon!!!!