Gumb - you are absolutely right. I shall leave JWD forthwith! LOL!
Clam - you are right these are not gender specific faults.
Trevor - I am an attention whore. I am not an adult. However in this instance I am using the forum to get something off my chest, to make myself feel better. All who know me well will be able to read between the lines and understand I got hurt badly enough to make sweeping statements, albeit rather tongue in cheek. I am sorry if i offended you or any who have not taken this with a pinch of salt.