Does your niceness be lie your evilness?
That's all I got to say about that.
Does your niceness be lie your evilness?
by prophecor 14 Replies latest jw friends
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Elsewhere
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Cellist
You sound like you're a normal person. Except for my husband, nobody has any idea of what goes on in my head. I'm sure they'd be shocked if they did know. Why do you think that's evil? Why is the world entitled to know my private thoughts? When dealing with co-workers, family and friends, I'm consistent. This I believe is important, people know what to expect from me.
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Frannie Banannie
Although being nice is probably preferable to being a real a_ _ hole, would you rather that the person your having dealings with just let you know up front, " Hey, I'm a _ _ _ khead and you should steer clear of me and anyone like me?
Only if you're a serial killer or a control freak, Proph, and I don't think you're either of those. That sets you as average on the scale of things. Everyone has their postures.
Frannie
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Mary
If you ever really got to know me, however, you'd come to some pretty hard to face facts. I'm not that nice of a person, if you were to see the real me, the one who's often selfish, has lude desires.
I think we all can be selfish and have 'lude desires'. It's calledlow life did today), and as long as your 'lude desires' don't include having sex with kids, you're probably no worse than the rest us Pr 'being human'. No one's perfect or anything near perfect. As long as your selfishness doesn't include beating up a 101 year old woman and stealing her purse (like some oph.
p.s. Elsewhere, yer full o' shit!
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LongHairGal
Prophecor:
Maybe it is left-over guilt from the JW days. It is unnatural and impossible to be so "nice" to everybody. How tiring! For the most part and under most circumstances I suppose you could be "nice". But, I won't be nice if it means people will bother me (maybe women are more vulnerable in this area). I tend to be reserved until I know what I am dealing with.
I do not feel any pressure to be nice like the old days as though my every thought were being judged. Really! Talk about developing phobias! As far as lustful or lewd thoughts, women have them too.
Give yourself a break.
LHG