You have had 3 Bad Relationships in a row.......your next one (page 3)

zagor

actually at this point in time I feel only like getting lost on some remote island to lick my wounds and stop looking for the eternal love. I don't think I believe in that concept right now any more than I believe in 'god' I do believe in power of friendship and companionship though and hell these things can go a long way and turn into something even more spectacular with time. But I'm afraid true love only exist on pages of a great book. Life on the other hand is not a book it is a bloody soup opera.

I think guys from the Darkness were right after all, love is only a feeling ...

Crumpet

I think guys from the Darkness were right after all, love is only a feeling

And even the Darkness didn't last...

I think my next relationship might be with a woman. I'm kind of bored of men and they don't really understand me anyway...

zagor

I think my next relationship might be with a woman. I'm kind of bored of men and they don't really understand me anyway...

A relationship with a woman is exactly what I had in mind, I'm a male lesbian you know ;) lol

Well I do wish you really find what you're looking for.

Crumpet

Well I do wish you really find what you're looking for.

Thanks Zagor - I really wish I actually knew what I was looking for!

Finally-Free

You have had 3 Bad Relationships in a row

Is there any other kind?

W

BFD

I've only ever had 2 relationships. The first one was with a guy 13 years older than myself, it lasted 17 years until he was cheating.

The second one was with a guy my own age but he was so in love with himself there wasn't any room for me, it lasted 5 years.

The third one, um, fu** it, I'm gonna find myself a rich one. lol

BFD

reneeisorym

Ok here's my advice for the day.

First off, fix yourself. Learn how to communicate. (see a counseler .. read self help books ... )

Right now, make a picture in your head of where you want to be in the future. Make it clear and specific. (Not just -- I want to be married but more like "I want a wife who I can talk to, enjoys traveling like I do, etc. who stays at home with the 3 kids I want to have, and who is this certain religion/atheist") And then when you meet someone, boot them if they do not fit into that picture of what you want out of life.

Next, find someone who is where you want to be. Find someone you think is successful. (a mentor) Also, someone not involved that has nothing to loose from telling you the truth. (Like a close friend that doesn't want to hurt your feelings would be a bad person to ask.) Ask that person if the girl you have found is the right one. When we are in relationships, we get a fog in front of us (infactuation) and we can't see if they are really a good egg or not.

donnalee

smart daughter, your duaghter!!

donnalee

i'm new to all of this and have recently been replaced by the kingdom (u can c my postings under "i'm new - help me"). relationships are not an option. the kind of relationship IS. if the bar is set too low, i wud say that WE, the seekers need to fix ourselves first, ryt?

i know i've joined in l8, but just wanted to give some feedback. NO man or woman shud sleep w/any man or woman within the first three months of a relationship. DON"T DO IT!! if there is one good thing about the kingdom, it is that sex is not particularly promoted. Sex is gr8, but often we have a tendency to let it rule our realtionships.

peace.

donnalee

av8orntexas

My first was with a sister from No Cali...nice but I seriously thought she suffered from Bi-polar or something. Would call and talk one day..vanish the next. Finally, went our seperate ways and who calls me out of the clear blue 8 months later ? Yup ! She knew where I worked, had been "talking" to a brother in South Texas and they had disagreement over her coming. Leaving her stranded in Michigan. Well who ponied up a pass to get her back to San Fran ? Yup yours truly. Only to have her vanish for well over a year, then email me and invite me to her wedding. No Thanks. Funny thing... ( all the previous took place in 2003 ) her hubby was transferred here to Texas in the same city as me. Well guess has magically found my email and wants to talk and get together ? I'm confused over this.

Second was with a sister from LA ( Damn those Cali sisters ! ) she was a pioneer...but I think she lives a double life. First pic she ever sent me was a full body shot of her NAKED !!! I asked her why she sent that to me and her phone suddenly wasn't working properly. Bad attitude and unwilling to talk things out if ther was any sort of disagreement. I was 28 and she 21...my biggest mistake. On the surface she seemed to have it togther,but she constantly talked of drinking and what sisters had gotten drunk....We broke up out of the blue. She visited Texas last week of January 2006 and Feb 1 said she wasn't ready to date . WTF ???!!! Well she sure got over that quick, because she had plenty of pics of her and her ex-boyfriend up on her MySpace page ( Hey JW's aren't allowed on there right ????Hmmmm )

That said..someone who knows what the hell they want, and def not a JW. I'm not looking for Barbie,but a real non-judgemental person who's is down to earth and can have fun will do.

You have had 3 Bad Relationships in a row.......your next one

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