More drama between my mom and I

by reneeisorym 42 Replies latest social family

  • reneeisorym
    reneeisorym
    Your great-aunt Brittney died Tuesday morning she was found on her kitchen floor dead. Her funeral was this morning.

    OMG .. My mother just sent me this email. It was the only aunt I had that wasn't a freaking JW. I have tried to contact her but her contact info wouldn't work that I had. I tried to ask family for her number but they wouldn't give it to me (or ignored me rather). I was going to try to contact her so I could have someone to talk to and she freaking died.

    And why the hell couldn't they tell me TUESDAY so I could have gone to the funeral or something??! I get this Friday AFTERNOON so I couldn't go ...

    So here's a reply after I asked why she didn't tell me sooner:

    I couldn’t take a chance on you showing up and the family would wonder how you found out. They would point to me some has already made the commit if they knew I was e-mailing you they would have a decision to make. So think about it.

    So here's my reply:

    My Aunt who is NOT a JW died, mother. You could have had someone call me and tell me .. and it was after all an emergency. I do have a right to know when my family dies. This is the only person I had in our family who might have talked to me. I have tried over and over to contact her and I couldn't. Her number was disconnected. I even looked up Greg and tried to call him but they were never home. Why do you let some men tell you what to do like this? They are just trying to control you mother. Why couldn't you ask Dad if he could get an elder to call me or something? She wasn't even a JW!!!! That's what makes me so mad!! This in no way was something I didn't have a right to know.

    Lord only knows what she'll say to this.

  • carla
    carla

    Man! that would piss me off enough to take out an ad in the paper or write an editorial about the jw's! Our paper has a spot for memorials, people can write what they wish and post a pic if they have one. just a thought. Sorry about your Aunt. Your mom is .... well, I don't have anything nice to say so I won't.

  • ex-nj-jw
    ex-nj-jw

    Sorry about your aunt!!! Typical JDUB BS!

    nj

  • dedpoet
    dedpoet

    ((((Renee)))))

    I am so sorry for the loss of your Aunt. You have every right to be angry about the way the news was kept from you until it was too late for you to attend her funeral, and to be given this a a "reason"

    I couldn’t take a chance on you showing up and the family would wonder how you found out.

    She should be ashamed of herself, putting the opinion of a book publishing company pretending to be a religion ahead of what should be regarded as a family duty. In the circumstances, your reply shows a great deal of restraint.

  • EnlightenedMind
    EnlightenedMind

    ((((((((((((((((reneeisorym))))))))))))))))))))))

    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.

    I don't know why the absurdity of their actions continue to shock me, but it does. What a horrible and unloving thing to do to a person!

  • reneeisorym
    reneeisorym

    Thanks so much -- its great to know someone understands.

    I am so mad that I can't be sad about my aunt!! The only freaking aunt I had that wasn't a JW.

  • greendawn
    greendawn

    Sorry to hear about your aunt passing away and all the more so since she was the only non JW and accesible family member. This is one of the more disgusting aspects the way they treat their ex JW relatives, in fact with that unloving way they will make sure that they won't go back to them. The less JW relatives one has the better it is.

  • Warlock
    Warlock

    What a cruel thing to do to you.

    I'm sorry.

    Warlock

  • reneeisorym
    reneeisorym

    I get closer every day to telling them to just stay away from me and out of my life. I'm trying to be the better person but that's hard. 36 family members all in the cult....

  • avidbiblereader
    avidbiblereader

    Sorry to hear about your aunt and all the other crap that your family is putting you through, real Christian like??

    abr

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