I have been emailing with a sister in my congregation regarding the QFR. I told her I wasn't discussing it with most JWs, because I didn't want to hear any of their "new light" garbage. I told her this isn't new light; this just means that what we paraded out in 1935 as "new light" was wrong.
She sheepishly (no pun intended) agreed. Today, she forwarded an email from another JW, who has researched quotes from the publications related to 1935 and how our claims were "vaguely" worded. But, this person DID admit the in the talks, the brothers were much more direct. Then to his or her credit, they concluded that this is not "new light," but shows that our understanding was "dim." So, I do give this person credit.
My friend then concludeds by saying that 'they were preaching the wrong things in the 1st Century also', and she referenced Acts 1:6. I told her that I had to admit to mis-applying that very same scripture at times while out in service. And I pointed out to her that the 6000-pound-Gorilla-in-the-room difference between the 1st Century and our day is that John, Paul, Peter and the rest of the apostles (aka "the GB") did not get together and arrogantly make an incorrect announcement and then preach it for decades, only to have time prove it incorrect.
The problem in the 1st Century was the understanding of some individuals, NOT the understanding of self-proclaimed "channel."
Additionally, I saw a VERY good brother friend of our family; we have traveled together as couples and everything. We haven't seen each other for months. We chatted for about 20 minutes, when I brought up the QFR. That sent him OFF! He "confessed" to me that he had been accessing "bad" websites. SHOCK!!!! I told him I accessed ALL the bad websites. Long story short, he started telling me of the story he read about this sister who used to work in the writing department at Bethel, and how she was very angered by the child abuse thing. I listened to him rant for about another 10 minutes. Then I told him, "You're speaking of Barbara Anderson!"
His mouth dropped open and we had a LOVELY conversation about JW history.