Scully my dear friend you seem to put it so logical, I have known the answers in my heart for along time as to why my parents were so parcial to the other kids. I guess when I am feeling depressed I seem to take things harder especially bad memories. I will push on.
and JWdaughter, what a small world. What would be the odds of two of here having boys with Strep B menigitis. Yes it was a hellish ride of emotions and fear all tied together. But we were both blessed with our sons surviving.
We love them no matter what, as for our parents well that is something all together different isn't it?
Love Orangefatcat