by ladonna 60 Replies latest jw friends
Unbelievable.
Please don't buy into his pathetic words for even a second. I don't believe in evil spirits anymore, but that is a man possesed.
Crazy, truly insane. I suppose there is some comfort to be had in that fact, but it is small comfort I'm sure. I wish you didn't have to be experiencing this.
Feel free to use me like family any time.
Love, Mark
I already talked to ana, but I just wanted to say in a post that this is so vile, so utterly disgusting, that I want to be sick. Hate flows from them, and they call it love. That is where their godliness begins and ends.
Don't believe their vile lies, Ana.
I just keep reading and rereading it. This must be how Satan thinks....it's the only way something so truly disgusting could be written.
Jim
((((((ANA))))))
My eyes are still so full- I can't even imagine how that e-mail must have torn you apart!
The way he attacked you - down to your birth - was unbeleivable and totaly uncalled for! I guess he really understands the fact that EVERY LIFE is precious to God!
The amount of emotional blackmail in that letter was repulsive! I find it hard to realize that the person writting such vile things claims to be a follower of Christ. How very far they have strayed from his teachings!
Unfortunatly, this type of Letter is not uncommon in the Borg. I have had the sad experience of reading 2 other letters, handwritten by parents to their children outside the Org. Both of them sounded similar to this one, I'm saddened to report.
How very sad that the Borg encourages this type of thing - the destruction of families, to keep their control.
My heart is weeping for you.
I do have one thing for you to think on - Please remember;
"Freinds are the Family you choose!"
Choose your friends and replace your family.
Love to you!
Shell
Six,
Thankyou so much for the kind words............
I cannot list you all.......there are so many kind souls here. Not only the lovely supportive posts that have been written but also those of you that have dropped into chat just to say kind words.
This letter my father wrote is one of the cruelest things he could have done. The hardest thing would have been having to face it alone. Thankfully you were all here.......
I cannot say thankyou enough to each and every one of you. You gave me the strength to stand up to them and now you give me the strength to face the fallout. That is unconditional love.
What the JW's always profess to know about [love], they know nothing compared to 1 tenth of you.
All of you should be proud of yourselves. I am proud to know each and every one of you.
Thanking those also that sent private emails...........they meant a lot.........
Hugs and kisses to you all,
I will never forget this kindness.
Ana
If every man is my brother, what am I to him?. A. Einstein.
(((((ana)))))
my dear ana, i'm so sorry for the pain your family is causing you. i have tears streaming down my face after reading your father's letter. the nerve of that man to say those disgusting things!! how dare he treat you, a wonderful, caring, warm, beautiful person that way. i know words hurt, especially at first but i hope now you have realized his words hold no power over you. and they never need to hurt you again. you are in my heart and thoughts ana. love to you!
talk soon
love
harmony
ps. i wasn't going to say this in case it offends anyone but i think you'll understand ana....regarding toxic people, i say, fuck 'em, you don't need them AT ALL in your life. you are WAY better than them and you never deserve to be treated that way. hugs and kisses ana
Most people think, Great God will come from the skies, Take away everything And make everybody feel high. But if you know what life is worth, You will look for yours on earth: And now you see the light, You stand up for your rights.~~Bob Marley
I agree wholeheartedly with your words of advice to Ana. I'm going through the same thing right now. I am confident that I am not an evil person. I'm no longer angry, but quietly confident that the real truth will always win eventually. I am attacked by those closest to me and portrayed as "demonic", "depressed", "emotionally unstable". Yes, it hurts to hear these things, but I know who I really am.
The elders even told my stepson that what I am doing (asking questions) is worse than fornication. Imagine that! So, to all who are enduring this kind of slander, please hang in there! Continue to love your families for they "know not what they are doing".
Peace...
- BB.
Ana,
The words written were from a man weary of life. I guess in his adopting you as a child, he was doing you a favour...or doing the right thing.
In the real world, the world of acceptance, we raise a child the best we can and hope that the morals that are taugh from us to them will guide them through whatever path that they..the child, chooses to follow..and we watch from the sidelines.
Being priveleged to know a little of your growing years and the twists and turns therin...he should be proud that you turned into a reasonably sane and together adult and a decent human being...and if you chose, as you did, to turn your back on a religion that did nothing but cause you pain and upset....then so be it...
Well little sister..your are cared for by those who do care, and who do understand..and you know that. email me for the words you need when times get crappy
deacs+npy
Badwillie....(((Hugs)))
I don't know you yet as you seem quite new here, but the fact that you took the time to post on this thread shows you are not evil or any of those terrible things.
My heart goes out to any of us in this position.
I am going to call you Willie, because I don't like the "bad" bit........so Willie, just be who you know you are.
Our pain will diminish eventually.
Ana
I agree with you all, that this type of letter should be made known to the public. This will uncover who JW's really are. Here in France the authority would be very happy to know about this.
Ana, I'm at your service, please give me the go ahead to expose it. It's only good to push people to SUICIDE (sorry for using such a word).
Infact I already translated it.
waiting from you,
till then big hugs again,
Joe (who care about your HUMAN RIGHTS)
Joe,
You may use the letter with my full permission.
If it helps one person, it will have done some good. So please use it as you see fit.
If there is anyone else here who would like to use the letter please feel free to do so.........
I only hope the French will see what really does go on.
Kind Regards, and thankyou Joe,
Ana
