Sorry for taking so long getting back. I was busy reuniting in person with my long, lost, long-DFed brother. :-)
I'll post about that separately.
Karvel mentioned that the rs book states:
"WhatwillhappentoyoungchildrenatArmageddon?
The Bible does not directly answer that question, and we are not the judges. "
Here's what else I found.
*** w95 10/15 pp. 23-28 What Future for the Sheep and the Goats? ***
15 How have Christ’s brothers and the millions of other sheep united with them as one flock been treated? Many people may not personally have attacked Christ’s representatives, but neither have they treated his people lovingly. Preferring the wicked world, goatlike ones reject the Kingdom message, whether hearing it directly or indirectly. (1 John 2:15-17) Of course, in the final analysis, Jesus is the one who is appointed to render judgment. It is not for us to determine who are sheep and who are goats.—Mark 2:8; Luke 5:22; John 2:24, 25; Romans 14:10-12; 1 Corinthians 4:5.
23 Many are exposed to our message as we preach from house to house or informally. Others may learn of Jehovah’s Witnesses and what we represent in ways unknown to us. When judgment time arrives, to what extent will Jesus consider community responsibility and family merit? We cannot say, and it is pointless to speculate. (Compare 1 Corinthians 7:14.) Many now turn a deaf ear, ridicule, or share in outright persecution of God’s people. Hence, this is a crucial time; such ones may be developing into those whom Jesus will judge as goats.—Matthew 10:22; John 15:20; 16:2, 3; Romans 2:5, 6.
I'll pull out the key sentences since i can't use highlighting on Firefox.
"Of course, in the final analysis, Jesus is the one who is appointed to render judgment. It is not for us to determine who are sheep and who are goats."
and, here's the clincher
"When judgment time arrives, to what extent will Jesus consider community responsibility and family merit? We cannot say, and it is pointless to speculate."
A loyal dub who's desperately trying to cling to the idea that Jehovah isn't going to necessarily snuff out millions of children and infants, not to mention people living where the "good news" isn't preached too much will grab onto these quotes and cling for dear life, IMHO.
But, since I'm engaged in "Theocratic Warfare" for the lives and brains of my family I think I'm going to emphasize the references supplied by Blondie. ;-)
Thanks again Blondie for providing "food at the proper time".
Open Mind