i have to say, by the time i actually found this site, i was out of the BORG! the problem was i had no one to talk to about what i had gone through that would be able to understand my circumstances and view points... i came here, and well, people not only understood, but even when there were differences of opinions, they supported me....
well put Jeff, even though i was never a lurker, boy do i know where alot of these people are coming from... though the transition was almost completed by the time i was here, the love and friendship i found here has meant so much to me... i learned so much and really feel like i have a family here, even though i don't have much of one in real life!
the infamous one