Infamous,
Perhaps you are taking this all too seriously.
Discussion Board behavior is one dimensional and what appears to be a persons personality can easily be distorted in the cut and thrust of point-making. I have no doubt that Perry and Vinny are decent people who would be good company in real life.
I have found, often through trial and error, that it is best to deal with arguments rather than personalities. Arguments that I feel have worth I deal with seriously, those that do not I have fun with, most I ignore.
The reality is that after a few years posting on a Board like this, no argument is a new one. What we have is the frequently regurgitated viewpoints being discussed again and again and again. If a person were to look back in the archives, there would be little left to discuss as the arguments regarding chronology, atheism, Biblical interpretation, agnosticism etc. etc. have been dealt with ad nauseum.
Perry and Vinny's arguments are lightweight and they would never have got breathing space on this Board five years ago, when we used to have some really able Biblical apologists. Another poster made an interesting point recently, and that is that the reason for the 'lower' quality of debate is that the Internet has become every mans domain, where once it belonged to the more clued in user. I think that they hit an important point.
Just enjoy the ride.
HS