by fiveangels 36 Replies latest social relationships
I am in desperate need of help bad.I just found out my snake of a JW fiance already has been dating a JW,the bugger lied to me when I asked
if there was anybody else.Now I just want to make him pay for all the hurt he has caused-I know this isn't the right way to think but why should he get away twice with hurting me.I called him to ask about it and he called me a stalker.I am not just wanted the truth,is that too much to ask?
i am dead inside
So you are engaged to him, and hes dating someone else at the same time?
Im sure thats a job for the elders. But you will need some evidence (at the hands of two witnesses and all that). So id say stalking is probably your best option. If you could get some kind of concrete evidence like a photo or someones testimony that they have been seen id say the elders will kick his ass for you.
I take it all the congregation know you are engaged?
Im sorry you are in such pain. Trust me, it will get easier after a while. I was there a long time ago. My pioneer boyfriend began dating some other pioneer when I was dating him. Kept finding her bible in his car! I know its not the same as finding her knickers in my bed, but it felt the same at the time, as going out on field service was the raunchiest thing we did together!!
Ummm... would 'revenge' be a good thing at this point?
I'm thinking... learn what 'kingdom hall' he goes to - and the times (sometimes there are two different 'congregations' that share one hall).
Then - show up - like on a Sunday meeting. Dress nicely - appropriate for a 'church meeting'. (I'm thinking short mini-dress, stillettos, etc.)
Be all affectionate - greet him by name (use a 'pet' name if you had one for him) - etc (whatever)
If he is there with the gal he is dating - you'll cause some alarm bells to go off in her head, perhaps. As well with the rest of the folks there.
At the least - it'll make him squirm a bit - trying to explain who you are and why you're there.
Of course... you're not interested in the religion - you don't want to be one of the JWs - you just want to 'get even'.
I know. Childish. Getting revenge and all. *wicked grin*
Regards,
Jim TX
thanx for the reply,no the congregation did not know. At least I
don't think so as I am not a witness
Prodably wouldn't hurt cause what do I have to lose right
Go to his new lady, ask her if she knows about his raging case of herpes... tell her that's why you quit having sex with him becasue you did'nt want to catch that shit and luckliy you don't have it... tell her you also found a knotted dildo under his bed along with some gay porn; then be happy you never married this stupid, lying sack of crap worm disguised as a man.
Oh OK, I just caught up with the story!
Yes, definately, what Dawg said.
thanx all for the replies,I am so glad I joined this site.You guys are the best and have been very helpful
all I need to know now should I really do it
If I were you I would take the ring back to where he got it and trade it in for something nice for myself. Then I would call him and tell him I never want to see him again. Write the elders and tell them anomously that he has pornea under his bed, in his closet and in his chest of drawers. Then I would move on with my life and find a man that appreciated me for me.
What about the raging case of herpes?
