If you're really serious about getting her back, then you ought to initiate some kind of couples' counselling; but only if she feels this would be productive for you both. Sometimes an outside, objective party can help. After all, you may not be the only one in the relationship with "issues." I truly hope you can work it out with each other. If you can't, then you both have to move on and try to understand and forgive yourselves and each other of any mistakes . . . easy to say, hard to do. I wish you the best. Sorry to hear about this!
she left me today......
by theinfamousone 40 Replies latest jw friends
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Stealth453
Man, I feel for you. As nvr said, if there is anything I can do, pm me. I am no expert on relationships, but I have been in your shoes before.
Keep your chin up man...it will all work out for the best. Whatever that may be.
Peace.
Stealth
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jaguarbass
I wish you better days ahead the infamousone
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theinfamousone
hey thanks everyone... all of your ounsel and heartening words are really helpful... ive said it before, and ill say it again, i consider you all close friends, and good people... thank you...
that being said i have now realized that my lack of trust has caused her pain... she just called and is coming home to talk tomorrow... she knows i have not been lying, just not sharing everthing wiuth her... for now, my kitten is keeping me company
the infamous one
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Lady Liberty
Dear Infamous One,
I am so sorry you are going through this! Hang in there.. maybe you will be able to work things out tomorrow.. you are in our thoughts and prayers!
Sincerely,
Lady Liberty
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Sparkplug
Heyya Creepy! Talk...talk talk...
She left, but she's not gone. ......Prove to her you can communicate. What is it that she feels is left out of and relay everything.
Invite her back, have a romantic dinner with her favorite flowers and some candles. (even if you have to order it out) and talk, talk, talk.
You will be ok.
r.
You never know how far talk can carry a life....a love.
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brinjen
theinfamousone
Good luck for tomorrow, will be thinking of you I sincerely hope it all goes well for both of you. Who knows? This may end up being the turning point in your relationship. Keep your chin up, stay postitive.
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FlyingHighNow
Infamous, I am kind of going through something similar. Even though I have my two grandsons here with me, I am very lonely without Andy. I'm still in shock, but it's been three weeks since his accident and hospitalization, so now it's more dreamlike, drifting disbelief. There's more to it that I cannot post on a public forum.
Here's a song for you:
What Becomes Of The Broken-hearted
Artist: Jimmy Ruffin Lyrics
Song: What Becomes Of The Broken-hearted LyricsAs I walk this land with broken dreams
I have visions of many things
Love's happiness is just an illusion
Filled with sadness and confusion,
What becomes of the broken hearted
Who had love that's now departed?
I know I've got to find
Some kind of peace of mind
Maybe.
The fruits of love grow all around
But for me they come a tumblin' down.
Every day heartaches grow a little stronger
I can't stand this pain much longer
I walk in shadows
Searching for light
Cold and alone
No comfort in sight,
Hoping and praying for someone to care
Always moving and goin to where
What becomes of the broken hearted
Who had love that's now departed?
I know I've got to find
Some kind of peace of mind
Maybe.
I'm searching though I don't succeed,
But someone look, there's a growing need.
Oh, he is lost, there's no place for beginning,
All that's left is an unhappy ending.
Now what's become of the broken-hearted
Who had love that's now departed?
I know I've got to find
Some kind of peace of mind
I'll be searching everywhere
Just to find someone to care.
I'll be looking everyday
I know I'm gonna find a way
Nothings gonna stop me now
I'll find a way somehow
I'll be searching everywhere -
Vernon Williams
Hey, I don't have a clue what is going on with you and your wife....
I, only, wish you the best. I sign a lot of my letters and posts "Yours in this Journey." I think we see a lot of peaks when we travel this life: the high places where the air is cold, you see far, and you are within a heartbeat of the Eternal.
Lots of times, though, especially for people like you that have the heart to feel the Hurt, man, it can be the foulest swamp and the darkest jungle on Earth. That is Journey: some of it just sucks.
I am glad you are here....in this place of understanding and empathy. We are drawn together by technology as far as a means of communicaton, however, the true "here" are persons of Commen History and Concern.
It seems you and this whole "God deal" are in a bit of turmoil. Despite that, be assuured of my prayers for you this night. From a distance, with the exception of this email "Hope you get well card" it is the best I can do.
V
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blondie
She Left Me Today
It's never a good thing when you lose a friend trying to stay true to yourself. Here's a little country ditty that came to mind. Reminds me of Buck Owens
SHE LEFT ME TODAY
I got home and saw the note
You had put it on the boat
You said the boat was my real love
She left me today.
I never knew my heart would pain this like
Not even when I fell off my bike
I was good at hiding pain
She left me today.
You said I hide too much
Of what I feel and such
Would telling all I know mean that
You won't leave me today?
She left me today, She left me today
It is not realistic to think that we can share everything we are with the ones we love. We hide from ourselves; some things are just too much to admit or we want to avoid hurting those we care for.
She left me today; she really left long ago.
Don't be alone...find someone to hang out with until you get perspective.
Blondie (not the trusting sort)