Zena, this is a stretch. Try "THE MOST WANTED SHOW" call them or google them on line. See if someone there has had the same type of experience that you are going through and what advice do they have for you. John Walsh ( whose 6 year old son Adam was murdered and as a result has helped catch and prevent further crimes of this nature with his show ) has been very helpful when the police have not been able to do anything until a crime has been committed.
Blueblades