I guess the thing i'm worried most about is if he could be potentially one added to the list of ones that turn their back on you if you leave.
I don't want to be negative -- just realistic. He probably will be one of those people who turn their back when you leave. It is what they are conditioned/programmed to do. Honestly, if you cut back on the relationship now before you fade, it might be less painful in the long run.
Purza