AK Jeff, I believe your Stalker was not a Cyber Stalker, because he/she had details about you that would be available though the internet, correct me if I am wrong.
Philip
This individual has information about me, some of which was hidden in clues in his/her contacts. That information was not all available on the internet - some of it was private information that could only have been known by knowing me personally. He/she knew names of persons in my family that I had never revealed here or anywhere else online. And in one email indicated a personal conversation that I had had years ago.
Of course, a talented cyber mole might have been able to intercept emails and other personal correspondence and gain those facts - but I do not believe this is how it happened, for reasons I do not wish to divulge here. I honestly believe this person to be lurking on this site now - I do hope that no evil intent exists toward me - though I am not entirely certain of that fact at this point.
Is a good stalker one who remains invisible? Or does a stalker want to arouse the fear that comes from uncertainty in this regard? Motive is the key to that - and I am not sure of my stalker's motives yet.
Jeff