Honestly tho, I'm curious why the need to get the family out?
Well, here's why, I'm DF'd, therefore they won't speak to me, unless its a family issue or business related. I was raised by my dad, since I was 5, and I'm tired of not being able to have a relationship with him. I don't care if they choose to stay in, BUT, I think they need to seriously reconsider the importance of family relations, and also how they are being hypocrites by talking to my cousin, who has been a "marked" person since he was in his teens. He's living with a woman, and they still talk to him, and hang out, yet, I commit the same "sin" of immorality, and they cut me off cold turkey, because I was dunked in a pool when I was 15. THAT IS RIDICULOUS!!!