Open,
Why not help keep it a little bit more "newbie/lurker friendly"?
I think this statement is probably at the crux of your argument, and it is one that I once held to myself when I first came to this Board. It is really an argument that is an evolution of the 'Good Witness' theory exalted by the WTS - back off in moments of controversy for the sake of a 'Good Witness', never tell the stark truth if it might drive people away, after all a 'Good Witness' might win that person to our side. I no longer hold to this idea, as it is arguably dishonest and while it may win short term friends, it is often at the sacrifice of truth and principle.
The point is that this Board is a mix of numerous personalities, characters and viewpoints. It is made up of different nationalities, financial demographic, social standing and intellectual capability. Adjusting our on-line behavior to suit any one of these differing stations means that we are trying to impute judgment in three dimensions where only one exists. Eventually we will need to see the flawed thinking in doing that. One is always better consistently speaking ones mind on subjects that are of interest than making it 'lurker' friendly.
As it is, a person does not have to click on any thread that might 'upset' them. They do not have to read or partake in any threads that may cause them upset, either emotionally or intellectually. Like the TV you are just one click away from 'freedom'.
HS