Im sorry your in so much pain...I really feel where your coming from right now as im going through something similar....The only thing i can say is take it one day at a time. And one thing I've heard to do is : you'll never really erase the memories of her out of your mind...but you can replace them with new ideas and soon the old ones will fade....... hang in there!
I just need to vent :(
by R.F. 14 Replies latest social relationships
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Im sorry your in so much pain...I really feel where your coming from right now as im going through something similar....The only thing i can say is take it one day at a time. And one thing I've heard to do is : you'll never really erase the memories of her out of your mind...but you can replace them with new ones and soon the old ones will fade....... hang in there!
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R.F.
Thank you all so much for the words of comfort.
I just got back from going out to dinner and hanging out with my family, so I feel 10xs better.
You all are so very right. I know now that it's best that it did turn out this way and saw the real her before it was too late. I truly have learned from this. One of those things is to not ignore those red flags that pop up. I know things will be fine for me. It just hurts that this person I thought cared so much about my feelings treated me this way. I guess it didn't actually just hit me until now. Until today I have been fairly fine about the issue. But I guess people like this come and go in your life. It truly has been a learning experience, something that will only help me from now on in life.
Thanks again all....
R.F.
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eclipse
R.F. It sounds like you are going through the stages of greif, since you have suffered a huge loss, it is no surprise that you are greiving...you have to, in order to move on and to heal...
My heart goes out to you...just listen to your logical side, the one that tells you that this is for the best, what if you married this girl? The way she treated you, you did not deserve it, not one second of her turning on you like that.
The problem is hers, not yours. If you feel that confronting her and telling her how you feel will help you to move on...then think carefully about doing so....will she just listen? will she mock you? will she play the turn-around game and try to place the blame on you? Do you have the strength to put her in her place and place the responsibility back on her shoulders where it belongs?
I wish you all the best with whatever it is you choose to do...we have your back! remember that...
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R.F.
eclipse,
I don't think talking to her will do any good. She's already shown that she doesn't care, so I will just leave her be. She showed that she isn't even a friend to me anymore.
R.F.