My 20 year old JW brother is dating a 30 year old sister - should I worry?

by nicolaou 34 Replies latest social relationships

  • nicolaou
    nicolaou
    If you're very careful how you handle a younger sibling, they might actually turn to you for advice.

    Very true FHN. That's been on my mind for the last few years.

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    If she's putting out, I wouldn't worry.

  • erandir
    erandir

    What is all this age discrimination? Just because someone is physically 10 years older doesn't mean that a relationship shouldn't or couldn't happen and be successful. In fact, I would prefer my 20-year-old son (if I had one) to marry an older woman who is more mature and responsible. Even better, I would prefer that my kid(s) wait until they are 30 or so to get married in the first place. I remember how I was 12 years ago and that I shouldn't have done half the things I did. Being 32 instead of 20 brings a whole new perspective on things. I guess my rant here has two main points: (1) Age differences are not that big of a deal--how you are inside is more important than your physical age. (2) Waiting to get married until around 30 is wise.

  • tijkmo
    tijkmo

    tijkmo, are you an only child?!
    no

  • eclipse
    eclipse

    LOL @ dragonlady!

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