Daniel-p
You may have touched on something here. In lower class or lower income areas, if you go to college, the congregation looks at you as if you're trying to come UP in the world. But in upper income areas, it's the norm to go and it's not looked at as trying to climb up the worldly ladder, so to speak. It IS a cultural component, as you put it.
After living through this exact scenario, in hindsight I think this plays more of a factor in how the local congregation feels about you than what the Society says about education. Everyone interprets their own advice to inform their course of action anyway - I think the real problem is that those who may have experienced years of hardship and disapointment from their hard work not paying off as they hoped it would, see others who take a different route to achieve financial security as "sellouts." They have invested in only one means to achieve success, and now that they are so far along in life and can't turn back, they resent other taking what they see as the "easy way out." In my old hall, before I transfered to a 4-year university and got my degree, i got a lot of flack for going to college. i was the only one in the congregation to be going at the time. Even though I was a servant, they would give "marking" talks as local needs, warning the younger ones not to look up at me as an example. How do you think I felt, them talking about higher education, when everyone knew I was the only one going to school? It hurt at first, but then I learned to grow a thicker skin. That elder who gave the talk always discouraged college, and yet, he was the most beat-up, tired, and worn construction worker in the hall. He was convinced, either conciously or not, that hard physical work was the only way to secure a future for ones' family. And to not be working and borrow money while you go to class and study was a vastly less noble thing to do. In addition to being something the Society looks down on, for whatever reason. That was just the icing on the cake.